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Would You Rather Questions for Couples

45 Would You Rather questions for couples, from cute and silly to ones that tell you something real about each other. Great for date night or a long drive.

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How to play

  1. Read the question out loud to the group.
  2. Everyone picks a side at the same time, by pointing or raising a hand.
  3. The smaller side has to defend their choice in one sentence.
  4. Pass the phone to the next person to read the next question.

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  1. Would you rather always know exactly what your partner's thinking, or always be pleasantly surprised by them?
  2. Would you rather have a standing weekly date night, or have a spontaneous adventure once a month?
  3. Would you rather get a long hug every morning, or get a long kiss every night?
  4. Would you rather re-live your first date, or fast-forward to your fifth anniversary?
  5. Would you rather always share dessert, or always get your own?
  6. Would you rather have matching playlists, or have inside jokes only the two of you understand?
  7. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen once a week, or watch the sunrise together once a month?
  8. Would you rather always be the one who says 'I love you' first, or always be the one who hears it first?
  9. Would you rather keep a photo from every trip you take together, or keep a jar of ticket stubs and notes?
  10. Would you rather get breakfast in bed, or find a handwritten note in your bag?
  11. Would you rather always hold hands in public, or always get a hand on the small of your back?
  12. Would you rather have a ritual for celebrating good news together, or have one for getting through bad days?
  13. Would you rather plan the holiday together for months, or surprise each other with the tickets?
  14. Would you rather always fall asleep mid-conversation, or always wake up tangled together?
  15. Would you rather know your partner's coffee order forever, or always know exactly how to make them laugh?
  16. Would you rather tell your partner every intrusive thought you have about them, or hear every one of theirs about you?
  17. Would you rather reveal the nickname you call them in your head, or reveal the one you almost said in public?
  18. Would you rather admit which of their habits you find weirdly attractive, or admit which one drives you up the wall?
  19. Would you rather re-enact the moment you realised you fancied them, or re-enact the moment you knew they fancied you?
  20. Would you rather have your partner rate your flirting out of ten with notes, or rate theirs the same way?
  21. Would you rather show them your camera roll from the week you met, or show them your texts to friends about them?
  22. Would you rather admit the pettiest fight you've ever genuinely won, or admit the one you let them 'win'?
  23. Would you rather tell them the thing they do that you brag about to friends, or tell them the thing you quietly complain about?
  24. Would you rather swap phones for an hour with full access, or read each other's saved memes only?
  25. Would you rather confess which of their exes you low-key investigated, or confess which of yours they've asked about?
  26. Would you rather describe your ideal lazy Sunday minute by minute, or hear theirs and find where they overlap?
  27. Would you rather reveal the compliment from them you replay in your head, or reveal the one you wish they'd give?
  28. Would you rather admit you've rehearsed a conversation with them before having it, or admit you've rehearsed an apology?
  29. Would you rather tell them the exact moment in a normal day you find them hottest, or tell them the least flattering thing you still find cute?
  30. Would you rather play 'how well do you know me' for who does the washing-up, or play it for who picks the next three films?
  31. Would you rather tell your partner about every serious crush before them, or hear about every one of theirs?
  32. Would you rather reveal the ex you compare them to in good ways, or admit whether there's one you compare in bad ways?
  33. Would you rather name the pet peeve of theirs you've never mentioned, or name the one of yours they don't know bothers you?
  34. Would you rather show them the last texts between you and an ex, or delete those texts together right now?
  35. Would you rather admit the part of your past you've softened when telling them, or tell them the completely unedited version?
  36. Would you rather tell them which of their friends you don't trust, or hear which of yours they'd rather you saw less?
  37. Would you rather reveal how you really felt about their family at first, or hear how they really felt about yours?
  38. Would you rather confess the argument you're still quietly keeping score on, or confess the apology you're still waiting for?
  39. Would you rather say the habit of theirs you've been passive-aggressive about, or hear the one they've been biting their tongue on?
  40. Would you rather tell them the moment you first had a doubt, or tell them the moment that doubt went away?
  41. Would you rather admit what you miss about being single, or hear what they think you miss?
  42. Would you rather reveal the last time you were jealous and hid it, or hear about the last time they were?
  43. Would you rather tell them which of your standards they don't quite meet, or admit which of theirs you know you don't?
  44. Would you rather share the 'if we broke up' intrusive thought you've had, or talk through why it's even there?
  45. Would you rather name the conversation you've been avoiding for months, or let them name theirs first?
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