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This or That Questions

45 This or That questions for icebreakers and quick rounds with friends. First instinct only, no thinking allowed.

How to play

  1. Read both options as fast as you can.
  2. Everyone answers on instinct, no thinking time.
  3. Anyone who hesitates is out for the round.
  4. Go round the circle until everyone has read one.

All 45 questions

  1. Coffee or Tea?
  2. Beach holiday or Mountain cabin?
  3. Early bird or Night owl?
  4. Text back fast or Call instead?
  5. Sweet or Savoury?
  6. Cats or Dogs?
  7. Window seat or Aisle seat?
  8. Plan every detail or Go with the flow?
  9. Books or Podcasts?
  10. Cook at home or Order in?
  11. Summer or Winter?
  12. City break or Countryside?
  13. Curated playlist or Pure shuffle?
  14. Big party or Small gathering?
  15. Save the best bite for last or Eat it first?
  16. Reply-all fail or Left on read for a week?
  17. Trip in public or Wave back at a stranger who wasn't waving?
  18. Send the wrong text or Like a photo from three years ago?
  19. Sing the wrong lyrics loudly or Forget someone's name mid-introduction?
  20. Laugh at the wrong moment or Cry at an advert in public?
  21. Get caught talking to your pet or Get caught talking to yourself?
  22. Over-share with a taxi driver or Go totally silent on a first date?
  23. Butt-dial your boss or Send a rambling voice note to your ex?
  24. Show up badly over-dressed or Show up in gym clothes?
  25. Forget a birthday or Forget an anniversary?
  26. Autocorrect disaster or Typo in a company-wide email?
  27. Get caught mid-yawn on camera or Get caught eating on mute?
  28. Laugh-snort in a silent room or Clap when the plane lands?
  29. Double-text or Triple-text?
  30. Tell a story that's actually your friend's or Tell the same story to someone twice?
  31. Read your DMs aloud or Read your Notes app aloud?
  32. Reveal your search history or Reveal your screen time?
  33. Tell your crush how you feel or Tell an ex you're not over it?
  34. Confess a lie you told or Confess a rumour you started?
  35. Say who'd help you move a body or Say who'd rat you out?
  36. Share your salary or Share your bank balance?
  37. Name the friend you've outgrown or Name the one you cling to too hard?
  38. Admit who you've stalked online or Admit who you've muted but not unfollowed?
  39. Read your last group-chat message about someone here or Read the last one they sent about you?
  40. Rank the room by trust or Rank the room by how funny they are?
  41. Say the nice thing you've never said or Say the honest thing you've been avoiding?
  42. Reveal your pettiest grudge or Reveal your biggest insecurity?
  43. Tell us your type or Tell us your dealbreaker?
  44. Name who you'd swap lives with or Name whose life you'd never want?
  45. Confess who you've fancied in this group or Confess who you think has fancied you?

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