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This or That Questions for Couples

45 This or That questions for couples. Answer at the same time and count how many you match on.

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  1. Read both options as fast as you can.
  2. Everyone answers on instinct, no thinking time.
  3. Anyone who hesitates is out for the round.
  4. Go round the circle until everyone has read one.

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  1. Big spoon or Little spoon?
  2. Morning cuddle or Goodnight kiss?
  3. Plan the date or Be surprised by it?
  4. Share dessert or Get your own?
  5. Handwritten note or Sweet text out of nowhere?
  6. Slow dance in the kitchen or Watch the sunrise together?
  7. Say 'I love you' first or Hear it first?
  8. Matching playlists or Inside jokes only you two get?
  9. Breakfast in bed or Coffee brought to you?
  10. Weekly date night or Monthly spontaneous adventure?
  11. Hold hands walking or A hand on the small of your back?
  12. Plan the trip together or Surprise each other with the tickets?
  13. Fall asleep talking or Wake up tangled together?
  14. A photo from every trip or A jar of ticket stubs and notes?
  15. Give them the bigger half or Split everything evenly?
  16. Share every intrusive thought you have about them or Hear every one of theirs about you?
  17. Reveal your private nickname for them or Reveal the one you nearly said out loud?
  18. Rate their flirting with notes or Have yours rated with notes?
  19. Show them your texts about them to friends or Show them your camera roll from week one?
  20. Swap phones for an hour or Read each other's saved memes only?
  21. Win the petty argument or Let them 'win' it?
  22. Admit the habit of theirs you brag about or Admit the one you quietly complain about?
  23. Confess which of their exes you investigated or Confess which of yours they've asked about?
  24. Describe your ideal lazy Sunday or Hear theirs and find the overlap?
  25. Reveal the compliment from them you replay or Reveal the one you wish they'd give?
  26. Admit you rehearsed a conversation or Admit you rehearsed an apology?
  27. Name the moment in a normal day they're hottest or Name the least flattering thing you find cute?
  28. Play 'how well do you know me' for the washing-up or Play it for who picks the next three films?
  29. Tell them your love language or Guess theirs and check?
  30. Name the quirk of theirs you'd never change or Name the one you'd fix in a heartbeat?
  31. Hear about every serious crush before you or Tell them about every one of yours?
  32. Name the ex you compare them to in good ways or Admit if there's one you compare in bad ways?
  33. Name their pet peeve you've never mentioned or Name yours they don't know about?
  34. Show the last texts between you and an ex or Delete them together right now?
  35. Tell the softened version of your past or Tell the completely unedited one?
  36. Say which of their friends you distrust or Hear which of yours they'd rather you saw less?
  37. Confess the argument you're keeping score on or Confess the apology you're still waiting for?
  38. Name the moment you first doubted or Name the moment the doubt lifted?
  39. Admit what you miss about being single or Hear what they think you miss?
  40. Reveal the last time you were jealous and hid it or Hear about the last time they were?
  41. Say which of your standards they don't quite meet or Admit which of theirs you don't?
  42. Share your 'if we broke up' intrusive thought or Talk through why it's even there?
  43. Name the conversation you've been avoiding or Let them name theirs first?
  44. Tell them how their family first made you feel or Hear how yours made them feel?
  45. Say the passive-aggressive thing straight out or Hear the thing they've been biting their tongue on?
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